Love – is a complicated thing. When asked what it is, sometimes can not answer people who have lived together for decades in the world of debt and full consent.
But how to prove the guy that you love him – the question is more than strange. Why argue the man you love? He should understand that. And if you do not understand for a long time: months, years – perhaps with him that something is wrong between you … or something like that. Perhaps it is not necessary to prove anything, because he does not love you and your senses he is not interested? Take your time to prove anything. Try to behave, to prove his love occurred to him – the first … This alignment is much better that with which we started here.
It shifted something in my life – not otherwise …
It seems that life, in relation to its values is something great shifted once modern men require girls proofs of love. Always, in all times proved their love is the stronger sex – noble knights and beautiful ladies fans. The girls decide to take them that love or not. Give a reciprocal feeling or thinking. Assign your life with a man or not to do so. It is a pity that all this has changed and beautiful declarations of love did not compose for men willing to be on the knee, and for women … A truly world turned upside down – not otherwise.
Okay, make allowances for the twenty-first century. On liberation, emancipation, free time, relationships, equality of the sexes … What else recall that the situation with the need to prove love the guy could somehow wisely and tactfully «razrulit»? Perhaps that time so women like to consider themselves in all equal to men (the debate about this breed is useless – life affirmed that equality has long established itself, albeit «de jure» more often than «de facto») then for such a right is necessary to answer today. Like, girls, equal rights? Kindly prove to us, man, that you love us. Yes poubeditelnee. And we observe, listen, think – and decide: to believe you, poor thing, or not to believe … Запрошуємо, тренінги семінари Київ безкоштовно.
Once the question has arisen, so it is important to you
Expressing what we really think about the wording of the question, try all the same problem to solve. About it – the next part of our story. Or recommendations. Or the right. Call them what you will – are still not in the title. And to you, the girls help. Believe me, we want to make it quite sincerely – despite the fact that we are in principle against such a formulation of the question. Where to go, life puts us sometimes in strange conditions. Not so much life as our attitude towards it. Not so much the ratio of how much the experience of others. And someone else’s example. After all, yielding to someone else’s example, the girl is so easy and free to decide on the close relationship. With a man. Already it is quite normal that someone gets one man, then another, then a third … And eventually, someone of them we have to prove that it is we love.
Here it is – the situation. You finally fall in love. For real. More than one search is not necessary. I would like to stay with this man – and only with him. The past is not. For you.
How to prove the love of a guy
Try to prove nothing. Just like him, do not forget about it for a minute. This does not mean that we should molest him endless declarations of love – not all men like this. Nothing should be a lot of – a recognition, too. However, it depends on your character, temperament, habits. It is possible that the general habits. If you – a girl incredibly thirsty, using every opportunity to cuddle, kiss, whisper in your ear a few gentle words, and the young man is willing to «tolerate», moreover, he is like, he responds to you the same – he may really is like you, and you have found the same to each other … There is one little «but»: from experience we know that these emotional state relations as abruptly can sometimes end – and negative at break of these pairs there is much more than where people stored in the external relations of mind and behave more or less smoothly. I know many examples where a year after the wedding, it is a sensitive and loving husband brutally beat his wife, and the hatred and disgust with her hand against the tyrant was no limit … All of these families have broken up. Here is an indisputable proof that the surplus, roughly «gushers» manifestations of love does not always mean that this love – true.
Constantly showed their interest in the issues that concern your man. What is important for him to become important to you. Interested in the problems of his work (or study – if he is young and learning). We all have difficulties with self-realization, fulfillment of professional functions, relationships with superiors. Put yourself so that your loved one was interested in your opinion, your support. Perhaps you are not familiar with issues related to its work (study, business) – try to broaden their knowledge by studying information on the Internet, looked through the literature pertaining to the case in which he is engaged, passionate. By the way, his hobby is also a good idea to maintain (if not booze and gambling, of course – a man with such «hobbies» you do not need). But in any case do not sacrifice that is very expensive and you like the most. If you have a favorite hobby if you do something in my life for a long time passionate about – try to explain to the beloved, that this party is really for you is no less important than what he worships. Remember: your inner world as worthy of respect as the inner world of your guy. Is not opposed to your interests – learn to find a way to combine them. Compromise better antagonism.
Always cheerful, cheerful, adjusts itself to the positive in everything. Look for a reason to turn the time spent with your loved one, in celebration. It’s not about what to look for any opportunity to sit in a restaurant or be in a noisy group of friends. Quiet holiday home waiting for a man, much nicer, more desirable, more valuable than endless desire to be in the midst of the people, even if your friends you are very dear to both you love them. Try to make every minute of communicating with a person who became your family and friends, for it was associated with pleasant emotions. To achieve this goal there are many ways: to cook for dinner something good to eat, and sit under the pleasant music by candlelight, give a man a cute gift made by your hands, to buy him a thing that he had long dreamed of and that will be very useful to him in his work ( it’s not about expensive gifts, but only about things that can bring a little joy to your loved). Every day, giving herself to him – always beautiful, well-groomed, smiling, attentive.