No need to close the quarrels and scandals – it will not change anything.
If you can not keep emotions in themselves – «pour» all that you have accumulated at him, he deserved it. That is unnecessary fuss just to arrange a dressing down to her husband – you just mess up your nerves. If you think that you will be then easier – go ahead! If you want to cry – cry! Important in this period try not to take it out on others, especially children.
It is not necessary to look for her husband and his mistress to seek a meeting with her to «look at whom he traded you,» to avenge her, raise a stink or put her ultimatums. Another mistake in this situation would be if you want to take revenge on her husband, and change it in retaliation – you do not calm down, but rather make yourself worse, do not be like the husband.
Very important is the first time the support of loved ones, mostly girlfriends, as the blow and shock simply to survive. You need to talk, listen to advice and recover. Perhaps the best time to live separately from her husband, because she is with him in the same apartment, not to mention the joint lodging, it will be very difficult. Because of this you will be able to think calmly and make a decision to forgive her husband or divorce him.
Forgive or divorce? The answer to this question is quite difficult. If her husband’s infidelity provoked both of you, and he repented of his deed and promises that it will never happen again – perhaps you should give him a chance, but remember to forgive her husband and forget to change it are two different things. Can you then trust her husband and return to your relationship to the same level? Есть, тренинг для специалистов по закупкам, а также и школа продавца Киев и Львов.
If you know that my husband will change on you, you love a lover or you can not forgive him this – that would probably be better to leave, at least, to resume relations if they are really strong, you can always. Optional with the divorce, you could just spend some time apart, and if you can not get together with him, then you can file for divorce.